{"id":13739,"date":"2015-10-26T10:30:30","date_gmt":"2015-10-26T14:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.canyoustayfordinner.com\/?p=13739"},"modified":"2015-11-16T18:46:04","modified_gmt":"2015-11-16T23:46:04","slug":"weekly-coffee-date-4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/weekly-coffee-date-4\/","title":{"rendered":"Weekly Coffee Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13881\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/lifestyle-purse.jpg\" alt=\"contents of purse\" width=\"566\" height=\"849\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/lifestyle-purse.jpg 566w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/lifestyle-purse-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/lifestyle-purse-400x600.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/lifestyle-purse-320x480.jpg 320w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 566px) 100vw, 566px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We usually have coffee on Fridays, but we need to catch up. Leave a comment below and tell me everything you&#8217;re up to because I&#8217;m codependent and care too much for my own good.<\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Life<\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\">Today I&#8217;m fresh off a plane from the Deer Valley Resort in Park City, Utah, and I don&#8217;t want to overstate it so I&#8217;ll just say: Park City is the most beautiful city ever. I spent 4 days with a dozen incredible women who inspired me, made me laugh to the point of tears, and I think mostly just shocked me with the amount of warmth and encouragement they offered. I&#8217;ll share so much more about this trip soon because it really was unforgettable and you should be in on that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><!--more--><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Moving<\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\">So, I had assumed that most of my major muscle groups had atrophied due to lack of use, but I recently found out otherwise. Last Sunday, I rented a UHaul to move all of my big furniture and the last of my belongings to Daniel&#8217;s. On the first piece we moved &#8212; my bureau &#8212; we maneuvered our way down a narrow staircase, and as we approached the second flight that leads to the street, Daniel said with a smile, &#8220;Aren&#8217;t you so glad we didn&#8217;t get movers?&#8221; He then tripped backward off the last step, the bureau fell on his leg, and he sprained his ankle. We&#8217;re so good at moving.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-13740\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/22492681655_36faab5388_z.jpg\" alt=\"apartment\" width=\"567\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/22492681655_36faab5388_z.jpg 567w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/22492681655_36faab5388_z-300x339.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/10\/22492681655_36faab5388_z-532x600.jpg 532w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 567px) 100vw, 567px\" \/><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When we were done, I looked around at my bare apartment. My sweet little kitchen. I wrote a damn cookbook in that nook.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I walked through it and ached knowing I&#8217;ll never be in my\u00a0tiny bedroom that only fit a full-sized bed. I&#8217;ll never open that sticky door and walk to the bathroom in the dark every night like clockwork. I&#8217;ll never come home with hands too full with groceries and accidentally slam the heavy front door and have to, 5 minutes later, answer the door to angry, sound-sensitive neighbors. And I&#8217;ll never sit on the couch with my girl, Sabrina, and talk, or not talk, or watch our stupid shows.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I think about the past two years and I recognize just how much I grew up, how much more confident and accepting of myself I&#8217;ve become, and it&#8217;s no coincidence that Sabrina, this gusting wind of unconditional love and support, was there. Somehow we never ran out of conversation, never stopped hating all the same things, never took a pause from fiercely supporting each other, didn&#8217;t get bored of working on weird self-improvement projects together. We felt each other&#8217;s pain&#8230;all the time. We celebrated everything down to the new season of The Mindy Project, with a cake. We cry-laughed at how plainly wrong we can manage to approach\u00a0life sometimes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I&#8217;ll only be 20 minutes away now, and back all the time, but still, my eyes were a flood zone passing the nail salon we always went to, the Starbucks where everyone knew my name and made my drink ahead of the line, my grocery store&#8230;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">It&#8217;s a good thing to have such wild love for a time and place (and person) that you can&#8217;t bear to think it&#8217;s over. But it&#8217;s a chapter, and I have to remember that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The thing is, I am so crazy happy to be starting my life with Daniel. And moving in with him feels like finally being home again. Cheesy, but true. It&#8217;s this irresistible contentment and peace that I wouldn&#8217;t trade for anything in the world now that I know what I know and have it back.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">But enough about me. Tell me\u00a0what&#8217;s new with you. I can&#8217;t wait to hear what&#8217;s going on.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">. . .<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Oh and also&#8211;this Tuesday,\u00a0October 27th, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alexslemonade.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alex\u2019s Lemonade Stand Foundation<\/a> is hosting <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alexslemonade.com\/lemonNYC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a culinary event<\/a> in NYC to raise funds for pediatric cancer research. The event is hosted by Chef Alex Guarnaschelli, but 18+ of New York\u2019s superstar chefs will be\u00a0there alongside her, preparing amazing dishes. For more details and to order tickets, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.alexslemonade.com\/lemonNYC\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We usually have coffee on Fridays, but we need to catch up. 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