{"id":13767,"date":"2015-11-04T23:12:54","date_gmt":"2015-11-05T04:12:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.canyoustayfordinner.com\/?p=13767"},"modified":"2016-05-15T21:59:28","modified_gmt":"2016-05-16T01:59:28","slug":"working-big-to-small","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/working-big-to-small\/","title":{"rendered":"For Weight Loss Success, Remember This"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14105 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/weight-loss-overhead.jpg\" alt=\"If your goal is to achieve weight loss success, or to change your life in any meaningful way, here's an important reminder to help you get there.\" width=\"588\" height=\"816\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/weight-loss-overhead.jpg 588w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/weight-loss-overhead-300x416.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/weight-loss-overhead-432x600.jpg 432w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 588px) 100vw, 588px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Today I was pouring myself a glass of water, and this memory of me in high school came whooshing back&#8211;a flash of me on one of my health kicks, and not the one where I had two shakes and a sensible dinner or even the one where I attempted to run a mile and promptly threw up upon its finish &#8212; no, this was going to be <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">gradual<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, manageable. Like every other living being, I had been told all about the health benefits of drinking eight glasses of water a day. It seemed easy enough to tackle, so I got to it\u00a0&#8212;\u00a0guzzling\u00a0bottles of water in and between classes and\u00a0asking for hall passes to use the bathroom in\u00a0five-minute intervals. I was obsessed immediately, and yet, I was also well over 200 pounds,\u00a0eating a diet rich in Burger King and high in Double Stuf Oreos&#8230;and now somehow panicking over the state of my hydration.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Shaking up our habits&#8211;adding new ones, amending old ones&#8211;is always hard, but if you want to make meaningful change, you should consider working big to small.<\/strong> <\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Identify the biggest problems negatively affecting you. For instance, are you addicted to something (food, smoking, alcohol, drugs, shopping, sex, the list goes on\u2026)? Are you in a toxic relationship? Do you have mountains of debt and you\u2019re falling behind on bills? Are you bingeing or restricting (with food) almost everyday? These issues are major energy-sucks, they can hurt us physically and mentally, and we can lose years of life to them. Focusing on removing, or at least dealing with, these obstacles should be the priority, and then from there, you can work your way down to the minutiae &#8212; like finally creating a capsule wardrobe (can someone come over?) or organizing the mess under the bathroom sink (and do this, too?).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It isn\u2019t always necessary to take drastic action &#8212; and it\u2019s not for all of us. <strong>But even if you favor slower, more methodical change, your starting place should always be the big stuff, even if you break it down into smaller, more manageable goals.<\/strong> Why? Let\u2019s say you have crippling credit card debt. Cutting out your daily Starbucks habit is absolutely a good step to take, but it\u2019s not going to make much of a difference if you go home to an online shopping habit that\u2019s going unaddressed. See what I mean? Similarly, staying hydrated is a fantastic health goal, but water isn\u2019t able to wash away 3 Whoppers a week. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sometimes when we feel stuck, any movement feels good. And while it\u2019s true that doing <i>something<\/i><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong> is better than nothing, we can trick ourselves into thinking we\u2019re making progress when we aren\u2019t doing anything meaningful.<\/strong> When we\u2019re just doing the minimum and checking the small projects off of our To Do lists every day, at a certain point we have to stop and ask ourselves, <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am I growing?<\/span><\/i> <i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Am I moving toward my goals&#8230;or am I just getting by?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s never<em> just get by. <strong>C<\/strong><\/em><strong>omplacency is the couch that you think you&#8217;d love to sit on forever&#8230;until you find yourself three days into a Netflix and nacho\u00a0binge with bed sores and a sinking feeling that you won&#8217;t take action ever again.<\/strong> <em>How many times can one person relearn this?<\/em>\u00a0So let&#8217;s tackle our big stuff. Let&#8217;s be those successful people who aren&#8217;t simply good at the work they do, but are good at <strong><em>doing the work<\/em><\/strong>. And we can do that, can&#8217;t we?<\/p>\n<p>Of course we can.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-14104 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/11\/success_-680x1020.jpg\" alt=\"Success Is Doing the Work - If your goal is to achieve weight loss success, or to change your life in any meaningful way, here's an important reminder to help you get there.\" width=\"680\" height=\"1020\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">BIG NEWS!<\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>My memoir, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0770433243?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creativeASIN=0770433243&amp;linkCode=xm2&amp;tag=cayostfodi-20\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">It Was Me All Along<\/a>, has been nominated for a 2015 Goodreads Choice Award in the Food &amp; Cookbooks category! If you loved the book, please vote! I\u00a0love sharing my life with you, and writing like I do in this post &#8212; talking about weight loss, finding balance, and the struggles we all have &#8212; and I hope to keep doing that in book form :)\u00a0<\/em><br \/>\n<strong><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/choiceawards\/best-food-cookbooks-2015\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Click here to vote!<\/a><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today I was pouring myself a glass of water, and this memory of me in high school came whooshing back&#8211;a &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":14104,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[998],"tags":[248,368],"class_list":["post-13767","post","type-post","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-weight-loss","tag-diet","tag-health"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13767","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13767"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13767\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14104"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13767"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13767"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13767"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}