{"id":15563,"date":"2016-10-07T12:15:46","date_gmt":"2016-10-07T16:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/?p=15563"},"modified":"2016-10-07T12:15:46","modified_gmt":"2016-10-07T16:15:46","slug":"weekly-coffee-date-25","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/weekly-coffee-date-25\/","title":{"rendered":"Weekly Coffee Date"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-15565 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/coffee-cups_copyright_africastudio.jpg\" alt=\"Coffee cups photo by africa studio\" width=\"566\" height=\"849\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/coffee-cups_copyright_africastudio.jpg 566w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/coffee-cups_copyright_africastudio-300x450.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 566px) 100vw, 566px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This week my friend Julia put a name to something I&#8217;ve often thought about, but didn&#8217;t have a name for: <a href=\"http:\/\/nymag.com\/thecut\/2013\/05\/shine-theory-how-to-stop-female-competition.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Shine Theory<\/a>, coined by Ann Friedman.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Shine Theory is pretty straightforward. \u2018When you meet a woman who is intimidatingly witty, stylish, beautiful, and professionally accomplished, befriend her,\u2019 explains Friedman. \u2018Surrounding yourself with the best people doesn\u2019t make you look worse by comparison. It makes you better.\u2019<\/p>\n<p>Success isn\u2019t finite. It\u2019s not a substance that can run out, or a product that can be used up. One woman\u2019s success doesn\u2019t counteract your own. And when one of your friends is shining brightly, she doesn\u2019t put you in the shadows. She lights you up, too. Success is limitless, and contagious, and something to be celebrated \u2013 regardless of whether or not it\u2019s your own.&#8221; (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.marieclaire.co.uk\/life\/what-is-shine-theory-295830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Marie Claire<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p><em>Tell me what you think. And tell me about your week! xo Andie<\/em><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Here are the links that caught my eye:<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lifehacker.com\/the-least-unhealthy-fast-food-items-to-order-when-it-s-1713087851\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The least unhealthy items at fast food restaurants<\/a> | Lifehacker<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Know Your Farmer&#8221; + more\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.wmagazine.com\/story\/gwyneth-paltrows-health-coach-the-ideal-is-to-know-your-farmer\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">advice from Dr. Frank Lipman, Gwyneth Paltrow&#8217;s health coach<\/a>\u00a0| W Magazine<\/p>\n<p>Be careful not to take <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breakthetwitch.com\/false-first-step\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\u201cThe False First Step\u201d<\/a> | Break the Twitch<br \/>\nWe sometimes trick ourselves into thinking that buying expensive accessories is the first step toward achieving a goal. I know my Amazon history would reveal plenty of false first steps. I\u2019ve purchased a yoga mat at least 4 separate times. But if you want to start exercising, don\u2019t start by buying a Fitbit, go for a walk. If you\u2019re interested in photography, hold off on buying that dslr, explore the hobby with the camera you have and then evaluate your needs in the future.<br \/>\nThe <a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbc.com\/culture\/story\/20160819-the-21st-centurys-100-greatest-films\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">100 best films of the 21st century<\/a> from a survey of 177 prominent film critics | BBC<br \/>\nDaniel and I are\u00a0going to go through this list and&#8230;see them all (fingers crossed).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/articles\/171398-13-tips-for-cleaning-organizing-your-laptop-once-for-all\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">13 tips for organizing your laptop once and for all<\/a> (or, until we need to do it again) | Bustle<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-15564\" src=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/in_the_company_of_women-600x746.jpg\" alt=\"In the Company of Women by Grace Bonney, founder of Design Sponge\" width=\"600\" height=\"746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/in_the_company_of_women-600x746.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/in_the_company_of_women-300x373.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/in_the_company_of_women-624x776.jpg 624w, https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/10\/in_the_company_of_women.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This week, the completely wonderful Grace Bonney of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.designsponge.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Design*Sponge<\/a> came out with a\u00a0masterpiece book: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/1579655971\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=cayostfodi-20&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=1579655971&amp;linkId=e25ba4cab40b823ec9c8b56c260338f3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"no follow noopener\">In the Company of Women<\/a>.\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The book\u00a0profiles 100+ influential and creative women from all ages, races, backgrounds, and industries. All of the\u00a0interviews shed light on the intricacies of success, the everyday rituals that help these women thrive, and the practical, inspirational advice they want to pass on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em>Join me today (10\/7\/16) at 1pm ET\/10am PT for a <strong>Twitter party<\/strong> to celebrate #NationalSalmonDay! There will be prizes, coupons, and even the chance to win a cruise to Alaska. Follow along on Twitter with me, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AndieMMitchell\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@andiemmitchell<\/a>, Chicken of the Sea <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/COSMermaid\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@COSMermaid<\/a>, and Minute Rice <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/MinuteRiceUS\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@MinuteRiceUS<\/a>! Use #NationalSalmonDay in your tweets!\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This week my friend Julia put a name to something I&#8217;ve often thought about, but didn&#8217;t have a name for: &#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":15565,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wprm-recipe-roundup-name":"","wprm-recipe-roundup-description":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[999],"tags":[1131],"class_list":["post-15563","post","type-post","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-weekly-coffee-date"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15563","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15563"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15563\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15565"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15563"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15563"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.andiemitchell.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15563"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}